Category Archives: Lord Dormir

Lord Dormir, July 2003-June 2013

Last week we said goodbye to Lord Dormir. This guy:

Lord Dormir with long hair

I first met Lord Dormir in 2004 when I was a volunteer at our local humane society. His name at that time was Sugar, because his first family thought he was a girl.* He weighed almost 14 pounds. He was friendly, beautiful, fully declawed, already neutered and one of the sweetest cats I have ever met. I loved him instantly. He loved people of all ages, cats, AND dogs.


He used to sleep in the dog beds, and though our dogs are ten times his size they never pushed him out. One day I went to put Selby in her kennel and found Lord Dormir curled up in there having a nap.


He had a bad case of feline OCD. He would groom anyone and anything -cats, dogs, people, furniture… but sweaters were his favorite. He could not resist licking a sweater, no matter how many times his tongue got stuck to it like that kid Flick in A Christmas Story.* (Which was EVERY TIME) He groomed himself and our other cat so well that he had a serious hairball problem. I’m sure he just considered this a necessary sacrifice in the name of beauty.


He really did not know how to take no for an answer; it was his firm belief that everyone in the world wanted to cuddle with him just as much as he wanted to cuddle with them. He could hear a butt land on the couch from anywhere in the house, and would instantly materialize to sit in that person’s lap. And then he would slowly make his way up from the lap onto the chest.

"What? This is my rightful place."

“What? This is my rightful place.”

He liked to curl up on my shoulder when I was laying in bed reading or playing games on my phone (which was often). Or, sometimes, right on my face:

This picture was not staged; this was Lord Dormir's favorite sleeping position.

This picture was not staged; this was Lord Dormir’s favorite sleeping position.

My friend Eric once described him as “the purringest kitty ever”. This was an extremely accurate description. If he was awake and a human was around, Lord Dormir was purring. He even purred while eating.

Lord Dormir on my Pillow

He liked to sneak out of the house and chase butterflies in the yard. He did NOT like to go outside on a leash & harness.

He once caught a mouse in my bedroom. And then let it go. And then caught it again. And then let it go. Witnessing this, I fully understood the meaning of the phrase “playing cat and mouse”.

He liked to steal the dog’s food when they weren’t looking. Sometimes he would even steal it out from under their noses while they were still eating it. He also liked to sneak up in the counter and lick our dishes clean. Recently he even got so bold that he tried to eat our food right off our plates while we were still eating.

He wasn’t perfect, but he was perfectly ours. I miss him.

Lord Dormir avatar_______________

* In fact, nearly everyone who met him for the first time said “What a beautiful cat! What’s her name?” But it made no difference to him whether you thought he was a boy, a girl, or a genderless alien. His mission in life was to love and be loved by everyone.

** Don’t tell me you don’t know what I’m talking about?


One pet’s trash is another pet’s treasure (cartoon)

Emerson: MAMA! HELP! I AM TRAPPED! Continue reading →

Lord Dormir is generous

Me: I’d like to go to sleep now.

Lord Dormir: Good idea. I think I will do that too.

Me: You’re on my pillow.

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Lord Dormir, certified sleep therapist

Lord Dormir: What are you doing?
Me: Um, sitting in bed, playing games on my phone. Also, Facebook and Twitter.
Lord Dormir: Studies have shown that using electronic devices prior to bedtime makes it more difficult to fall asleep and can lead to insomnia. Just saying.
Me: What studies? Name one.
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HO HO- no. (with photo)

Me: Guess what, Lord Dormir?

Lord Dormir: You invented an automatic cat-petting machine?

Me: Uhh… no. But I did buy you a new jacket to replace the old fleece one which is all worn out.

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Lord Dormir: Innocent until proven guilty (cartoon)







Lord Dormir, party crasher

Lord Dormir: What are all those boys doing in the living room?
Me: Son and his friends are having a video game sleepover party.
Lord Dormir: Hello everyone.
Son’s friend: Oooh hi kitty! *pets cat* OH NO! You distracted me and made me lose!
Lord Dormir: My work here is done. *leaves*

Feline renovations

Me: Lord Dormir, must you insist on peeing outside the litterbox?
Lord Dormir: Well, sometimes the boxes are not clean. Would you want to use a toilet that hadn’t been flushed?
Me: Good point. But even when the boxes are clean, you still go outside the box.
Lord Dormir: Sometimes the box is not in the right place.
Me: How am I supposed to know where you expect the box to be?
Lord Dormir: I tell you where it should go, by peeing in that spot until you put a box there. Seriously Kari, try to keep up. I thought you were supposed to be smart. Didn’t you go to college?
Me: I graduated Magna cum Laude, thank you very much.
Lord Dormir: Clearly not in Interior Decorating, or we wouldn’t be having this conversation.

The League of Extraordinary Cuteness (cartoon)

These are my pets displaying their secret identities

Quantum Cat. Super Powers: Super-perseverance, 'Who-Isn't-Petting-A-Cat' Sense, Undetectable slow motion

Secret Identity: Lord Dormir


Secret Identity: Emerson


Secret Identity: Selby

The Orange dagger. Superpowers: Invisibility, teleportation, super-sharp claws

Secret Identity: Sir Oliver

Picture of all 4 pets as Superheroes. Lord Dormir says "Hello, ladies"

Artist’s Block

Selby: What’s wrong Mama?

Me: I can’t seem to shake this artist’s block. I want to draw more cartoons, but I can’t seem to finish anything.

Emerson: Ugh, I know just what you mean. Sometimes I really want to scratch an itch but I just can’t reach it.

Me: Um, yeah – sort of like that. My friend Cherish put this drawing on Facebook today to encourage me:

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